Date: 11 Oct 2005 23:13:20
From: Jennifer
Subject: Bowling on 2 leagues
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Well I'm new to bowling on a league. It's been 30 yrs. since I last bowled (I'm still young). One league I started on 2 months ago is a little more competitive. They really (my team) critique my bowling, which has become intimidating. They're great folks, but it really is ruining my evening every week. I'm starting to dread going now. My other league, I have the best time. We have fun, the heat isn't on, competition is friendly. I bowled the best game ever when I bowled with them. It's easy going. I've invested so much money already with the 1st league. I don't want to drop out, but I can't stand feeling like this! It is sucking the confidence right out of me and also the fun. We're not a group of friends, we are all strangers that got put together on this team. Anyone ever had this dilemma?
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